Congratulations Jessi Lindstrom, our Purchasing and Inventory Specialist on being a new mom. Jessi gave birth to Tucker on September 18th. We are so excited to have Jessi back at work, but I am sure she misses her little guy! We had a chance to catch up with Jessi this week to talk about her experiences as being a new mom. Check out what she has to say….
How big was Tucker when he arrived?
9lbs. 3oz. 22 inches long
What is the best part of being a mom?
The smiles. Once he started recognizing me and smiling I really started to like being a mom.
If you could give another soon-to-be mom a tip, what would it be?
The toughest part for me was getting to know him. I know it sounds weird, but you need to take time to get to know your baby(and give them a chance to get to know you). They have their own quirks just like you do.Also don’t be afraid to ask for help. That was hard for me. I like to do things on my own, but I definitely needed help, even just so I could get another half hour of sleep.
What has been your biggest challenge as being a new mother?
I am still trying to figure out how to have “me” time. Everyone told me before I had Tucker that I needed to make sure I made time for me after he was born. Every time I was told that I thought “Well, I’ll take that time when the baby sleeps”. My eyes were opened after he was born. For about the first month and a half I felt like he NEVER slept. I remember talking to one of my friends who also just had a baby and she said the same thing. Since then I have ASKED for more help so I can get some “me” time. Even if it is just for two hours a month.
Did you have a baby shower? If so, what theme did you use??
No, I didn’t have a baby shower. I have a lot of family that does not live close. I had a “Meet Tucker Party” about 3 weeks after he was born so all of the family could travel just the one time and see him at the same time. I didn’t really need anything (as far as gifts go). We had gone to a lot of garage sales since I was pregnant over the summer.
What is Tucker’s favorite toy?
At almost 3 months of age, he hasn’t gotten into toys yet. He has discovered his hands though. He is always hitting something with them, that’s when he doesn’t have them in his mouth. He even hits himself on the head and then looks at us with a look like “ OUCH, what was that?”
What is Tucker’s favorite thing to do?
He loves to lay on his back and “run”. Every time we lay him on his back, he starts kicking his legs really fast and hard. He can do that for literally an hour at a time!
He also likes to talk. He talks non-stop. He even talks in his sleep!
What is your favorite product on SimplyBabyStuff.com and why?
I absolutely ADORE the new modern lines. I have always been the girl who would pick anything brown before I would pick pink or blue. The way the designers have tied the browns with the Pink and Blue is PHENOMENAL!!!!
I especially like the new Mommy Silhouette Invitations and Thank You cards. The paper that they are printed on is of very high quality and sturdy.
Is it hard coming back to work full-time?
Harder than I thought. I came back to work for only 8 hours a week after about a month. I was fine with that because I was starting to go stir crazy at home(I needed adult interaction). I was still home for most of his waking hours. Now that I am back to work full time, I definitely miss him. When I get done with work I want to get home to him as fast as I can because I know I will only have a few hours with him before he goes to bed.
Anything else about being a new mother you want to share?
I grew up with a large family, so I didn’t really want kids right away. If I wanted a kid for the day, I could grab one of my nieces or nephews. I waited to have Tucker until I was almost 27. Even when I was pregnant, I was not sure if I was ready for a baby. I was prepared, but not ready. After he was born, I changed. I now know what I was missing. I am not the type of person that gushes over babies. If someone I know comes around with their baby, I usually look at it and smile, but don’t hold it. I never wanted to. Even my nieces and nephews only were held by me when I HAD to hold them.
Tucker has changed me into an emotional mom who doesn’t want to let go! I love holding him. I can sit in the recliner and rock for hours with him. I see a lot of thing different now. I look at what I want out of life now and it is incredible how one little thing can change the path that you want to go down. It is going to be a fun ride!